yes, maybe he should be more understanding and now that you're going to try to stop smoking pot he needs to realise you'll probably be anxious for a while. my husband actually smokes pot every day and it is a good thing for him because otherwise he's uptight all day long. i hope you can do it, i know when i tried it it messed my head up and i am still affected from it. i'm schitzophrenic so thats probably why. if you have a pre-existing condition you don't know about could make it worse too. like ADD or other thing going on. good luck