Ive been separated for over 18 months. Me and my soon to be ex husband are going thru a divorce right now and literally waiting on final paperwork.

We havnt lived together for over 18 months or been a family or anything for all this time.

All my family know we are divorcing. I've got a new job recently and go by my maiden name. I've changed as much as I can to my maiden name. I'm known to everyone by my maiden name.

My mom sent me a Xmas card in the post address Mrs xxxxx

I'm so so upset!

She knows why I'm divorcing him and the hell he put me through and how he ruined my life.

She said I'm still legally married so used my married name and won't use my maiden name until I'm legally divorced.

I'm beyond speechless