by the way, granite... I've ben really furious with my T for the last month or so, because he will be taking three weeks off over Christmas/New Years. Never mind the fact that he actually starts working earlier than I had anticipated (Jan 7 - I'd have thought he'd take that week off, since most people do; Jan 6 is a public holiday). Never mind the fact that he is only taking the minimum leave possible, or that I would not have been able to come to therapy anyway, because H is also off work. I am completely irrational and unfair but I'm still really mad at him... he accepts this and doesn't try to avoid the topic or come up with excuses, but he also doesn't try to do anything to help me (which also pisses me off a bit - but then again, it's not really his job to do that).

No idea if this helps at all - maybe I'm just intruding here. But T holidays are no fun.