I think you guys save people's lives/unhappiness. Thank you. I guess the last thing I can say that I didn't mention is that this fight ended 6 months ago and everything has been relatively okay since it ended except for some smaller control issues (like the being out with friends too long thing) and dismissal of my feelings (which is a big deal, of course). I have felt unsure because I wonder if that really could have been a one-time thing and I am just holding onto the past. He insists that it is unfair to assume it would happen again in other situations in the future and says we will never run into the same issue about jobs again. He also seems to really, really love me and seems so sincere in his promise to change. Please tell me I sound like a crazy person making excuses!!