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Originally Posted by OneInBillions
I hear you. The loneliness stings particularly acutely this time of year. All the pretty lights and festive atmosphere and talk of love and peace... Somehow it pierces straight to the core, right?
Still, you say you have a good education, a successful career, financial independence and physical attractiveness. Those are very good things -- all of which I lack! Oh man, what I wouldn't give for a successful career and financial independence! Though I'm 31, I still live in my parents' basement and depend on them for everything. Oh, and I'm ugly to boot
We've all got our challenges and troubles -- some more than others. So I think you should take your own advice and be happy for what you have! And realize that you are certainly not alone in your loneliness and depression.
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It's never to late to start anything

I have started literally from nothing as in ZERO, no parents here and no family to rely on. You have to remember that you will need to start somewhere. I started out retail, making almost nothing, took a student loan, went to school while working. I finished my BS degree and I had to continue school because I couldn't afford to pay student loan after I graduated so that resulted to going to graduate school - more student loan debt while still working. Then, I saved up some money and started my own side business to help pay for my student loan. I fortunately landed my first IT job, then, got another job at a university for 2nd job - so technically, I have 3 jobs. It is definitely hard and hard work but my weaknesses and lack of having anyone FORCED me to do these things, I think of them as the vitamins that strengthened me from going through anything. Believe, there are days where I feel very exhausted and get sad, but like I said from earlier post, I console and heal myself and perhaps you should try that? Remember, at the end of the day, only you and you can save yourself from all these obstacles. In some ways, I am glad for what my past, the loneliness and lack of being loved and cared for made me into such a strong individual - sure I do get depress at times esp w/ Holidays but I try to look at the good things in my life

Remember, its NEVER too late BUT only you can help yourself, take it from me, its hard hard work and there would be times, you'd want to give up but always be positive and look at the blessings you have and keep going no matter what