Soooo...find any insight? I knew if I looked through the forum I would find someone else with the same problem. I came to PC many years ago because my spouse was emailing with a "special" friend. It nearly ended our relationship. I made it clear I would not tolerate this type of behavior in any way shape or form. Thankfully he has been completely transparent ever since.

Unfortunately someone very near and dear to me is having that problem with their spouse right now. Sadly there seems to be at least three "special" friends in the mix. I am trying so hard to be supportive but I'm at a loss. As many ways as they find to catch or obstruct the offender the offender can always find a way around it. For both their sake...it just needs to stop. The spouse just continues ti lie and find ways to communicate with these people. I think it is a fantasy fetish but I don't know how to help him cope.

Anyone with suggestions PLEASE help. This is family. I don't way to see them split