I have really spoken up and laid down the law that this will not happen again at least not with my husband. Other things still pop up but I am trying to take a hard line with all of them. I am setting up boundaries. Keep talking with my counselor and got some support. Right now though I am beating on my inner self for trying to help someone and feeling like they might have poor feelings towards me since I was trying to make a positive suggestion for their business. I struggle when people don't respond. No answer, no thank you , so I end up thinking I was wrong, stupid foolish. Then my self beating starts. Why try and tell. It was really quite a positive suggestion to make sure their advertising got out before not after the event. I know the ads were not getting to me until after. So that could be true for other people as well. I missed going two times because of this and they are trying to build a new business. Honestly, I think that is called constructive criticism.