If it's your home, kick him out and don't be afraid to get the police involved if necessary. If you feel that he might be dangerous or harassing, get a restraining order prior to kicking him out. Also, if necessary (which it sounds like it is), get the divorce proceedings going as well.
Please be careful and have an escape plan though because when dealing with an abuser, the in-between stages can be dangerous.
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