My heart goes out to you. It seems your t meant to have your best interests at heart, but, I don't think she thought things through thoroughly enough. At best, she should have worked with you to ween you off the emails as opposed to just cutting you off altogether. She also should have discussed this change with you before taking it upon herself to implement it without any warning to you. Her way of handling the situation makes it very unfair.

I actually give you a cheer for sending her the note you sent her. Childish or not, that had to have felt good, right?? Good for you. I hope her holidays suck, too!