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Old Dec 16, 2015, 12:05 PM
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Originally Posted by musinglizzy View Post
Thank you all. Yes, I saw that as insensitive. Almost seemed purposely insensitive... I mean, jeez, she's a psychologist of 25 years or so. Made me think she said it to see how I would respond to it. I have regular sessions every week. Same day, same time. So I just wanted to confirm with her what would change with my regular schedule. I know she has family out of state, I didn't know if she was going away or not. Well, NYE falls on a Thursday, a normal session day...and for her to say that week is "normal," unless she decides at the last minute to take that afternoon off, really kinda hurt. I've been meaning to bring this up since she Emailed that to me, but I've had some pretty difficult events in my life occur the past couple of weeks, and we have focused on them. I have not had the energy to bring it up. I'm hoping on Thursday, I can. Because I just found that comment as insensitive. She knows me well. And she's GOTTA know something like that would sting. So if she knowingly said that, why would she? I gotta try to bring it up on Thursday.
Sorry, I miss understood. I thought you had already responded.

If it were me I would continue this communication by email, and spend my sessions on the events that are causing me the most pain. Then at some point , even if it's after the holidays I would point out how her words affected me.

Good luck.