The Verbally Abusive Relationship by Patricia Evans saved my life. Calll the Domestic Violence (national hotline); even tho you aren' being physically abused, they can help you.Is your husband out of the house now? What are you trying to buy time for? Do you have a plan? DO something with that anger; see a counselor, call the hotline, etc., etc....until someone helps you. your children are suffering, also. I stayed too long because of fear......xo