I don't think you can so easily say what is or isn't part of a therapeutic relationship. Somatic work including what would generally be termed snuggling is an integral part of my therapy ( severe childhood abuse /neglect, body dysmorphia from abuse, severe and chronic eating issues also from abuse). She tells me she loves me every time we talk. I've been with my therapist for 3 1/2 years and we have had issues but she is as honest and ethical as they come.

I dislike blanket statements about what is or isn't "therapy". Just because one therapist screws up doesn't mean every therapist who does something is bad. I agree that it takes a LOT more knowledge and care to manage a therapeutic relationship like ours but that doesn't make it inherently wrong