I met new T today. She is completely different to old T. She went through her rules, even printing them out for me. She agreed the ending with old T sounded very painful and that him walking out of a session, not showing up to a session and then just emailing to say btw he was winding down/done due to burn out would have huge consequences.

I miss old T terribly. Sometimes I want to email and ask him not to do this. I know that is silly.

I might have a call with him coming up (all depends on him emailing or bothering to set one up) I requested this as the email end was too painful and I think I owe myself an ok end. I also feel I want to tell him where he let me down. It took so long to trust anyone and then he blew it by leaving but I want to make sure I word it exactly how I feel and not get too bogged down in being upset. I am also not relying on him saying sorry or anything useful. It's more closure from my end that I need.

Long story. What would you say to a T that has wronged you?
When you transitioned to a new T or went to see new T after abandonment did it help?