My ex-T abandoned me 9 months ago. I started seeing current T 8 months ago. Things weren't easy for about the first 6 months. There were a lot of misunderstandings, conflict, drama, etc. She was put into a middleman position by my ex-T because ex-T refused to communicate directly with me. It was a very difficult 6 months. I actually went T shopping a few months in because things were that bad. But once ex-T was no longer in the picture, my T and I had a chance to listen to each other and try to figure each other out. And now our relationship is very solid and stable. I actually trust her. And she has helped me out so much. Her and I have talked about our termination multiple times, so that I will be more prepared when the time comes.

I have a lot to say to my ex-T who abandoned me. My main question is "Why?" I still don't know why she left me. I will never get it, but I would want a sincere apology. There's a lot more, but it's specific to my situation.