Well, if the meds aren't working well enough, that's really tough... have you added saltines to see if that helps too?

You really need to make yourself a pest with the OB, imo. If it's any consolation, the morning sickness usually goes away after the first trimester
Alternative therapies is all I can advise regarding the anxiety... and I think I posted them in that forum recently... there are herbs but you don't dare try them without the doctor's knowledge and approval, as so many will affect the pregnancy.
I hope you feel better soon!