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Old Dec 17, 2015, 08:10 AM
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Originally Posted by lolagrace View Post
Perspective is good. I think that realization has to mostly come from within though. Many people aren't in a place to gain that kind of perspective at a given time because their own pain is very personal and makes finding perspective very difficult. Often it comes in hindsight; that's what I've discovered.

The thing is some get some wrapped in their misery it is hard for them to get out... and often they are unknowingly "encouraged" in it, but too much "sympathy" and comfort.

I personally get annoyed when people react to my bipolarness and other issues "ooooh, so sorry, it must be horrible for you" and such. One person even reacted to confession that a professional qualification test showed I likely have ADHD or some sort of simmilar issue. When I was saying it while laughing through it, because it never bothered me. So I don't really talk about my issues with people, because I cannot stand their overdramatic pity.
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