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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel
I'm sorry you're going through this. My ex-T abandoned me 9 months ago.
For me, I knew I had to have another T asap. I didn't want a new one. I didn't trust the profession anymore. But I needed help and the only type of thing that would help was therapy. My new T has rarely helped me out. The first 6 months were the hardest. New T was communicating with ex-T for me, there were a lot of misunderstandings and miscommunication. The trust wasn't there. But now that ex-T is out of the picture, things got better with my new T.
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Hi Scarlet, I am so sorry that your ex therapist did the same thing. how long were you with them? how long did they give you to finish?
My ex t wouldn't even recommend another therapist for me because they thought it would just mean I would pick them to have a connection to my T and they said I was capable of finding and choosing a therapist myself - this hurt too. It was all so cold. it was like 5 years meant nothing
I am trying to seek mental health help from someone I saw in the past but I don't know how long I will be waiting for that. I feel such anger and such heart ache. I thought after 6 months I would be doing better but it has just gotten harder and harder.
Thank you for the support guys x