I have found to be the best approach for me is to lay it all bare, be honest, and hold nothing back to be sure everything is dissected. When I hold something back, it eats at me like I feel dirty and I am hiding a secret, and that secret has me tainted which becomes more than it needs to be. I also feel like I've given an honest effort to my recovery program.

To me, therapists are paid professionals that are there to serve a purpose to me. I pay them to help me. If they are anti me, then they are so fired, and if they did wrong like breach confidentiality, they get a black eye and can also be sued. Also, I can build a website and ruin their careers forever.

I met my first therapist and right off the bat told her something that I've never told anyone else ever in my life that caused an other to emerge to get it over with because it was messed up and has caused drastic changes in my life.

Of course, as if it isn't obvious, were a little lot forthcoming in our story and situation....so NOT DID it would seem. We are coming up on 50....a lifetime of misery, so we decided to finally be upfront of things because by hiding it, we've prolonged the misery instead of getting help.

Because of this condition, I trust no one. For me to wait before I trust somebody to open up, I'll die of old age (getting there). Besides, wait till they meet the Angry One and his buddies.