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Old Dec 17, 2015, 10:57 AM
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Originally Posted by PinkFlamingo99 View Post
I agree with this. I even told my old unethical T this in my last email to her. That I would not return and "terminate" and I don't believe in "closure." If somebody hurts you badly enough to damage you, there is no closure, just the gradual scabbing over of the wound with time.

However, if you do talk to him and you think it would be helpfu to say certain things to him I think it's your right after everything. You might want to wait until the hurt isn't so fresh to talk to him though. Distance might give you a different perspective on what you want to say.
Hi Pink, thank you.
This happened twenty years ago. I last saw him (at his deposition) a year or so after that.
i could send him a letter but I don't need more drama in my life. Plus, his wife and grown kids didn't do anything to me. I view them as his secondary victims.
Thank you, though.
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Thanks for this!
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