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Originally Posted by Ellahmae
Offering you hugs. I am deep into 'motherly' attachment with my T. However, she hasn't said any of the things yours has. She is just as much 'with me' as she was before we started talking about the 'mom' stuff. She even told me that is what she was doing, and what I needed and she would be there with it through every step of the way and that I would eventually wean myself from her but right now what I feel I need is what I need and it's okay.
I'm sorry you are having such a hard time and your T is being cold. I hope you can find relief soon or that she'll be open to an honest/candid conversation about how you're feeling and be able to offer you ways to cope as you struggle through this change.  |
Thanks Ellamae... That's really awesome your T has acted no different around you. Honestly, that would feel like a dream if my T acted that way with me. I don't know if you feel comfortable sharing, but I was wondering how long you've been having these attachment feelings for your T? I was thinking maybe Ts do have some kind of "timeline" when it comes to this stuff and thought maybe my T is getting frustrated because it only seems to be getting more intense (which isn't true, I am just sharing more/no longer hiding it) and is therefore getting increasingly frustrated because it doesn't seem to be improving. Thanks again.