My husband needs therapy, he is controlling and emotionally unstable. He would get mad if I sent a text message to my daughters grandmother???? He would get mad at almost anything I did. This is the 3rd time I have ask him to leave the house "it was my house first" because my nerves were so bad with his ups and downs that I couldn't do simple things anymore like get a shower and put on my makeup. I don't even look like the same person anymore. I am in such a deep depression over the collapse of my marriage. I have been crazy about him since I was 13.......I lost touch with him over the years and we finally got together 22 years later. I question if I am making the right decision in ending my marriage without trying therapy first? I can't live with him right now......I have to know what is causing him to behave like this. This is the worst Christmas I have ever been through.......