For anyone that has children, has another child ever said this to your child? One of my kids keeps getting told this by a girl at school. They are 3rd graders. My child usually ignores the comment. And it doesn't seem to bother her too much since she has other friends and doesn't have much to do with this particular girl anyway. I think this girl is acting out because she comes from a very strict family and probably feels powerless at home, so she's trying to exert power over her peers at school. What should I tell my child to say the next time this stupid remark is thrown in her face? One phrase comes to my mind, but it starts with an "F" and probably wouldn't be appropriate for 3rd graders.