Can't speak for myself, but I have seen/known others in their 30s who meet someone and stay together.

Just remember that a lot of the good, normal guys are shy.

You will see plenty of creepers online aggressively trying to get an 18-year-old hottie, but those guys are generally considered, well, creepers, and most of them will be hunting forever with no results. Then they typically develop nasty bitterness issues like all women are stuck-up betches because they didn't get a line of supermodels excited to sleep with them. Lol. That type of a guy is going to be the most visible online, but they don't represent the majority of guys.

Then you also have to watch out for the "fedora" guys. These guys herald themselves as "nice guys" but they are not actually nice at all. They just think that the way women work is that you keep putting "niceness coins" into the slot machine until sex falls out. They also usually wind up being bitter psychos.

Your average, normal, genuine guy is often going to be shy and maybe even outright nervous with women, so you just have to be able to initiate conversations and be friendly with them, give them a little confidence boost. Just try to be outgoing in your day-to-day interactions with people, from the gas station to the grocery store and beyond.

If you go online, while there are for sure diamonds in the rough, you're going to see a lot of 40-year-olds looking for a slim "girl" 18-21 who likes to give head but of course "NO PROSTITUTES" (lmao). Oh and these guys: