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Originally Posted by tufan
Yeah man, these are the kinds of cases I dread running into. These are the kinds of things I read about all over the net and I'm just like "whoa, maybe not then" and I guess I feel this deep sadness that just because I am not perfect and young anymore, that I am a withered elder gnome that should be wearing a babushka and tossing the idea of sex with a man out the window. I tend to assume and presume the worst in most situations and realistically, I know that there are some decent dudes out there and of course that's the kind I hope to meet one day. But 18-21 I am not. Don't even think I'd go back there if time travel were possible, not for a man. I'm way more awesome now. Was dumb as a box of pine cones back then.
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You seem to be focused entirely on what you have to offer, and then to be hyper-focusing on d-bags on the internet. I think that would make most women feel depressed to be honest.
You're honing in on an extreme - loser d-bags who want barbie. And then it's like..
Oh no, I'm not barbie, I will never be able to have a loser d-bag of my own.
Like, why would you want a loser d-bag in the first place? If anything it's good that they are focused on finding barbie so that they don't bother the rest of us.
Most men just want a soft, warm body that smells good next to them at night, with a personality that will be loyal and kind to them.
So why are you focusing on creepy d-bags and what they want? Do they resonate with experiences you had growing up?