He's not looking for a relationship. He wants to have sex with you. and that's all he wants.

no guy will copy words out of a romance novel for a woman he is interested in for a relationship....especially a guy that's been married and divorced.

He's trying to manipulate you. He probably feels a little guilty after finding out that you are a virgin....which is why he is "putting the ball in your court". So he doesn't have to accept responsibility when he comes up with an excuse to choose someone else. "Well I did say just one night, and that I was kinda dating someone else".

If this guy was serious about having an actual relationship with you, he would want to spend time with you and he wouldn't be dating anyone else. And the sex issue would happen organically over time.... Not through a text message.