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Originally Posted by Plumprincess
My husband needs therapy, he is controlling and emotionally unstable. He would get mad if I sent a text message to my daughters grandmother???? He would get mad at almost anything I did. This is the 3rd time I have ask him to leave the house "it was my house first" because my nerves were so bad with his ups and downs that I couldn't do simple things anymore like get a shower and put on my makeup. I don't even look like the same person anymore. I am in such a deep depression over the collapse of my marriage. I have been crazy about him since I was 13.......I lost touch with him over the years and we finally got together 22 years later. I question if I am making the right decision in ending my marriage without trying therapy first? I can't live with him right now......I have to know what is causing him to behave like this. This is the worst Christmas I have ever been through.......
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Why do people leave out important information ! How long have you been married ? Has he been in any therapy at all ? Obviously he has anger issues , trust issues. Why does he get mad at everything you do ? Do you annoy him somehow ? Why did you ask him to leave the house ? Did he physically or verbally abuse you ? What do you mean by it was your house first ? If your married how come your not co- owners ?
You were crazy about him when you were 13. Then you got together with him 22 yrs later ! What did you/ he do in those 22 yrs. ? Maybe he's not the same person you were crazy about at 13 yrs old. People do change a little in 22 years.
I think you both should at least try marriage counseling before you file for divorce. You both have a lot of work ahead of you if you want to try and save the marriage .