For goodness sake! This is the last thing I need. Some little boy looking up to me as some kind of role model or father figure! Why me? I am the last person who should be influencing this kid!!!

All I did was notice how he likes machines, spaceships, cars and all things mechanical and how he reminds me of me when I was a little boy - I have Asperger's. He seems to have it too possibly - very quiet, doing his own thing, etc.

Then I gave him one of my little cars to play with, it was just standing in my office as an ornament, because I happen to collect the stuff.

Next thing I know, now he can't wait to see me when his mom brings him around, and seeks out my office first thing!

Sounds like the child has the depth of character required to deal with it.

The last thing I want is to influence this kid with my f-cked up life views!!! How does the things I don't want always find me?!!! For goodness sake, I'm like a sh--t magnet!

I'm so f-cked up, I never wanted to be a dad. Now I've got a boy (having a son of my own is what I dreaded the most) thinking I'm really cool and he wants to spend time with me!

He's already starting to ask about how to do a school project and what not.

I don't have the depth of character to deal with children! Help!!!