Hey,

Sorry you are suffering with this dilemma. It does sounds like bipolar to me, but that offical Dx will be up to the pdoc. Are you going to the appointment with him? You might have to tread very lightly - try to be objective and describe symptoms. If you get emotional and accusatory, it might all blow up. Be very careful not to use guilt over his actions and criticism as a means of control - this will most likely backfire.

You seem to have a good head on your shoulders about it all. One of the most important things you can do is take really excellent care of yourself during this time. Keep trying to find work, stay active, get good rest and nutrition - you might need a great deal of strength to carry you guys through this.

PM me if you need. I also recommend a book called Taking Charge of Bipolar Disorder. It has good tips for loved ones.

Good Luck and Welcome to PC!

moogs