Sometimes our own feelings can be the biggest clue as to others' feelings.

It sounds like to some of the people you liked, you were not one of their favorites so you didn't matter.

But if you think about it, for the people who were nice and glad you were there, but they just weren't your favorites and they didn't matter to you - it's not like you hated them, or judged them, or tried to take advantage of them. It's not like you were being mean or anything. You were just being honest with yourself and true to your feelings. It wasn't personal, they just weren't people you felt a desire to really connect with.

Chances are that some of your favorites had the same feeling towards you. It wasn't personal, it wasn't anything wrong with you, they just didn't feel the magic.

As for the guy who went off on you, well he sounds a but unstable to put it lightly, so best just to brush that off.