People are funny, it seems they get so offended easily and they just ruin any advances for a friendship cause you never know how they are going to take what you say or do. Just be yourself, and screw it if they don't like you. Real friends will love you as you are no matter what. So don't try to figure people out cause you can't. Just work on you, improving you and being good to yourself. And all good things will come to you as you work on them. blessings