I think the wife is her own agent and if she wants to be friends, it's her call. I'd more be inclined to ask how you feel about it. Would you want to be FB friends with her? Do you think it might color your picture of your T differently? There are people that I like well enough in real life and then I get on FB and it's like, "Here are 10 reasons the government is secretly controlled by reptilian overlords!" And I'm like... crap. CRAP. CRRAAAAAAAP.

It's like a local business that I frequented for several years before the owner one day decided to go off on conspiracy theories that were borderline anti-semitic (if you can be borderline in that topic). I have not shopped there since.