I am so sorry this happened to you. I wouldn't be able to go myself. My sisters and I have known for years that my paternal grandfather was the abuser who acted out sexually toward my youngest sister and myself. My other sister just discovered that he sexually abused his niece.

Right now, after a long road of therapy for that and depression, I still have a hard time the way my mother absolutely glorifies my grandfather. Ugh, gross~

There are so many people here @ PC that can help, if nothing else to lend an ear. I hope you stay here; there are others in your shoes.

Cat