Yes I feel you are justified to a degree but Jealousy can turn into ENVY and that is a deadly sin my friend....And jealousy is the quickest way to drive your partner away without even trying. And that is the truth as plain as I can tell it. If you 2 cannot come to an understanding then part ways on good terms or you will drive her away hating you. And you will resent her as well regardless of whether you were justified in your jealousy or not. You are both wrong in your attitudes and behaviors...