I never went to get answers about me or what I should or could do. I have asked about what the therapist was doing at me or how therapy worked but as for how for me to live my life is definitely not something I think a therapist has the ability to answer. I guess that would be part of the woman staying back - I don't want or need her opinion about anything having to do with me. I might go so far as to say I need the woman to keep her opinions and answers to herself and refrain from inflicting them upon me.