Thank you, the thing is he doesn't want to take it to court but if that's the only way to see her he will have too, his ex wife will lie and say that he has done things that are not true, and she will get people to lie for her as well because she does it every day, his little girl was 4 yrs yesterday and he sent a card for his ex wife to have opened posted all over FB then sent back to him, his daughter has not even seen the card, but as normal he has been called every name under the sun that I will not repeat on here, all he wants is to see his little girl but his ex wife is so bitter and twisted because he will not go back to her she will not let him see her.