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Originally Posted by Underground
Pretty obvious that you put yourself in the situation. If this is who you are then it is what it is. Initiating conversation from people from your past that is of the opposite sex is stepping to the dark side. If you didn't think it you wouldn't of been chatting!!! The games the game, those who play in the roles they choose know what their doing whether it's in the open or in the back buried deep, either way it's all the same!!
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that very well may be, but Heidi was my friend's little sister that we always thought was a pst as she hovered around all the time. When I "friended" my old friend she came along as well and it was nice to reconnect with him and her as well. The situation took a turn when she divulged that she had a school girl crush on me. When she stated that I was "dangerous" to her marriage, then and there I know something was up. I immediately stated that I was flattered but I do love my wife and we should just leave it at that and she agreed.
But that is the reason I posted this...Is it in our nature? Histrionics are known for sexual promiscuity and I know that all too well. I was actually pleased that I was able to set a boundary and relieved that she honored that because, and I'm being honest here, I don't know reddit I may have done had she not. I am making progress in my therapy, sketchy as it might be at the moment, but it is progress nonetheless. Hell, a year ago I was putting up full nudes to display myself to women on reddit...I was getting that bad.
Baby steps I suppose.