Thanks for your advice. It's good to be reminded that when someone is having a manic episode, it feels good and if someone tries to quietly point out inappropriate behavior or speech, it will seem like they're just trying to ruin the fun or be a party pooper. I know I often feel like the buzz-kill when we're out with friends. My husband is the life of the party, loud, laughing, joking, etc., but I am on edge thinking that at any time he's going to say something really inappropriate or just be rude by interrupting friends, insulting me, etc. My stomach is in knots the whole time we're out. Lately I just stay home and let him go out without me.
I am planning on attending the doctor's appointment with him. I know if I don't go, he'll lie about his sleep and his behavior. I don't even know if he knows he's "lying", he just doesn't know he does most of the things he does, like interrupting, inappropriate speech (swearing in church), outrage over small things, etc.
Thanks again for your support and advice.
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Originally Posted by Mountainbard
Hi Grace-- as Moogs said the main thing you need to do is take care of yourself. One of the things about hypomania is that, when you're having an episode, it's almost impossible to realize/recognize you're having an episode, and if people call you on it you'll deny. If you can it would be great to attend his appointment with him-- both to learn more and to point out what you've been observing-- which is definitely a hypomanic episode. And I'd pick up the book Moogs recommended. It really is excellent and has lots of good tips for loved ones dealing with someone with BP.
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