Hi there,

I have had long relationships with both men and woman. I was with men first but kept getting attracted to women. So I had a 10 year relationship with a woman that ended 2 years ago. Now I have been interested in men again. I have decided I'm bi-sexual.

What you describe is very common with women. There are many women who become physically attracted to other women and it does not necessarily mean that you are gay or bi-sexual - you are just curious. It is not as common with men.

I would not stress over this. Just go with your feelings. If your curious that's okay - she may be curious too. If you dont' want to act on it that's okay too.

Tranq