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Your question is an excellent one. Certainly sometimes people find some comfort in thinking about others who are worse off. The Germans even have a word for it: schadenfreude. But ultimately I think it's counterproductive to compare ourselves to others. There's always someone better off, and someone worse off. As my wife reminds me when I get judgmental-- everyone's just trying to do their bests, and we all have our unique burdens to bear, as well as our own unique talents and gifts.
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Dx Bipolar II 2014 -- currently in remission
Stay calm, be kind, have hope, love lots, and be well.
"Listen to the deep voice of your soul. Do not be distracted by the voice of your mind." -- Caitlin Matthews[/B][/COLOR][/SIZE]
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