This sort of falls along the lines of what my T said to me today. I was trying to convince her that i am in fact, an extremely boring person. She said she has yet to meet a boring person, but she has met people who are a bore--people that go on and on about their life ceaselessly, but in a fruitless sort of way. I am paraphrasing what she said, because I can't actually remember her words...but anyway, she said even then she knows that there is a wound underneath that is making that person act that way, so even then she sees past the "annoying" tendency or whatever it is.