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I agree to just be yourself. Show him who you are through your actions. You do not really get to start seeing the "real" person for months. I do not think it's necessary for someone to have that information about you... unless something concerning could happen (seizures, sleeping for days, manic ... and so on). Like someone else mentioned... you may find out that he is not what you thought he was - and he does not need to have private information - that many misunderstand.
This is meant to be a little funny... but how many men have I have heard say "she's crazy" when breaking up with someone or dissing a girl that peed them off?
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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