I empathize with you! A few years ago (before being diagnosed) I closed my account and my husband took over paying the bills. I am not on his account and he keeps everything but what cash he gives me away. He does the shopping I give him the list. However I am responsible for two bills only because he knows he can cover them if I don't pay them. I don't like that I have to relinquish control like this but it's better for the family. It's an idea for you. We don't believe in divorce n completely agree with counseling. Good luck!

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