I feel bad for you, but have no knowledge of Bipolar Disease. I'm the frugal one in the family. I even have on reading glasses right now from the dollar store w/one side broken. I am using scotch tape to hold the other side to my face...talk about frugal.

Have you tried to see all these things from his point of view? Putting your family in financial danger is still danger, like abuse in some respects. I hope you can get control of your illness b4 it is too late.

I have faith in you. Best of luck.