So my system the female Alters care for and protect the young male Alters. The male's are stuck at there abuse age and really pissed that they have not grown as the female's have and me.However they do feel like they are healing through outside help and we always try to stay positive.
For me it's like Jenga were building and building then one of the young Alters puts on a block..... And it all comes crashing down BOOOM!!! HA! Start Over.