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Originally Posted by Seraphine
Maybe that's what you need to do, start saying "well your behavior affects me this way, and you are acting like a hypocrite for ignoring your own behavior while being so keen to point out mine". It might help bring back some respect and improve your own boundaries with them?
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I never thought of doing that, but if I need to I will definitely say it! I'm just really non-confrontational. And timid. Meek. Shy. Overly sensitive. Its difficult for me, with my history of abuse, to stand up for myself. But I really like this so I will definitely try.