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Originally Posted by Crypts_Of_The_Mind
This has nothing to do with my childhood...I actually left my husband and fled to an abuse shelter n divorced him - then when I was kicked from the shelter I wound up back here again. Things have been really good - but the last month its been getting a bit rocky again (I've been back about 9mo now). So yes, I went through some abuse as a child - but this has nothing to do with that.
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People UNKNOWINGLY recreate trauma. Most are unaware of it until they're well into the re-creation or afterwards.
I'd say there is a HIGH chance of you re-creating as you date so many abusive men, this one for a second time.
My question for you is why don't you think you deserve better?
There is something within you that is drawing you to abusive relationships. I think it's worth examining this in therapy.
How long were you in therapy?