You make perfect sense to me arabianhorselover.

I don't understand the need of others to say cruel words. They should just keep that to themselves and their T's or Pdoc's or whoever.

You did not deserve to be attacked. You had a problem, you posted it. You defended your husband, as every loving wife would have. It is a rare instinct that only some of us married folk understand. Many married ppl are not in love with anyone but themselves and do not get the "give and take" necessary to be happily married. Nor one's needs to vent every now and then.

C'mon you guy's, get off your high horse (pun intended). Let the woman vent a bit.

I admire arabianhorselover's dedication to her husband above all of you here. That is called true love.

Sorry few understood that.