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Old Dec 21, 2015, 08:16 AM
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Originally Posted by ChipperMonkey View Post
People UNKNOWINGLY recreate trauma. Most are unaware of it until they're well into the re-creation or afterwards.

I'd say there is a HIGH chance of you re-creating as you date so many abusive men, this one for a second time.

My question for you is why don't you think you deserve better?

There is something within you that is drawing you to abusive relationships. I think it's worth examining this in therapy.

How long were you in therapy?
I am still in therapy and if you read my response to the other person who replied just after you - pertaining to my abuse - you will get the whole story on why I returned. You assume you know things about me without first asking. Would you say I more deserve to live on the streets? I am still in therapy - have been for the majority of 15yrs but the therapists here are not good at all and I am not talking about the results they get - I am talking about using abusive words on their clients or almost falling asleep during visits. I am speaking of true things that are not what one should expect from their counselor.