(((((kd))))) we think what you describe is what is happening to us

(((((Petunia))))) we think we have identified the trigger.

We think it is that we must move from this property
We have lived here since 1971. The thought of moving terrifies us, but we must move.
Every time we try to start packing things, or think about the scary lawyers we lose the plot

We are safe, kd, we think so, but will we be safe when we move to a new place ?? The littles might get lost. We are scared.

And then, to move, we must sort through everything here & that keeps bringing up old triggers & it makes it very slow.

We really have to move & sell this property before we are forced into total poverty. We can't maintain this place on a pension.