oh WOWOW ((((((((((((( zorah ))))))))))))))))) i can only imagine the many layers of MUCH going on right now. i'm so sorry hon.

yes, i'd say that's a trigger and so much more to the whole of you.

this will have to be well-orchestrated if possible for the children. can the adults make it an adventure and assure of safety while proving it with things such as a map of the area, directions to get to new home, phone numbers of trusted ones, descriptions of safe neighbors talked to, where things are put in the new place, etc? the more detail the better...many lists.

is that possible to do hon? i know you have so much on your plate. can we help you to come up with lists for the adults there to fill out and keep handy for the children and others?

this won't make it all better but hopefully ease some of the confusion?

we'll help all we can.

love and (((((((( big hugs ))))))))))

kd